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Post by KassieL101 on Mon Jul 26, 2010 12:16 pm

I normally don't talk about my personal life, but i really dont know who to talk to....lol...I just got a bf 3 weeks ago...and one of his ex's contacted me on facebook saying all this stuff like "He told me u 2 werent together" "We are still together" "He says that your just some little girl from church" "He's sworn to me he loves me." now whenever im with him, i hear these words in my head over and over again. The thing is, this girl lives in Ohio, and we live in North Carolina, yet she claims they're still dating. I've asked him about her, and he told me that she met her a few years ago at the beach, and that it's best that i dont talk to her because she's crazy, and she does that kind of stuff for fun. What i cant figure out is...how did she know i go to church? he must be talking to her if she knew that much... i want to talk to him about it..but im scared that if i do, i might lose him...i dont want that to happen...i just dont know wat to do...please help me Sad
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Post by xxFantasyLove on Mon Jul 26, 2010 3:38 pm

That is scary, honestly if she lives in Ohio then he must be in contact with her. Maybe he spoke to her on the beach about and how he likes you, i don't know. But if she's acting "stupid" and freaking you out, then delete her as a friend on facebook. If you feel like she's stalking you and your not sure and you wanna be safe, then hang out with people you trust. Tell one of your friends about what's going and tell them your scared. They should try to make you feel better. But like I told my other friend who was in the same situation, don't ever go somewhere super far away without someone by your side. Because if she does know about you and for so freaky reason she is in NC, and she is a crazy ex, she'll probably try to contact you try to scare you. If your with someone maybe she'll leave you alone.

If your really concerned tell your parents. Smile

I hope you feel better, but just so you know, your well being is more important then still being with him, if she is for real and she is trying to freak you out try to talk to him. I hope I helped. Smile
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Post by KassieL101 on Mon Jul 26, 2010 4:27 pm

It's not that im scared of her....im scared of what she told me...i ignored her like he told me to, but i cant get her out of my head. she was never my friend on facebook...only one of my friends know wats going on, and she doesnt know wat i should either...
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Post by xxFantasyLove on Sun Aug 01, 2010 12:20 am

Maybe you just need to hang out with your friends to get her off your mind. If she's echoing in your head maybe you just need some relaxation. Smile

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Post by Sacredlith on Sun Aug 01, 2010 5:23 am

It's generally yours to decide, whether you choose to believe in your bf, or in that girl ~ I'd suggest to ask him once more about this :3 don't be too hard as if it was like an interrogation or something, though xD If he really loves you, i bet he would tell you the truth Smile

and whoever this girl is, she sounded pretty annoying to me D;



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Post by Tifa326x on Sun Aug 01, 2010 2:30 pm

I think the best thing to do is to have a long talk with your boyfriend about it. Try not to be afraid, you shouldn't be afraid. Being in a relationship also involves talking to each other. You shouldn't have to hide your thoughts and feelings from him.

And about that girl, try not to talk to her. Do something on your FB which doesn't make her able to contact you through it. The less you speak with her, the less you'll remember her words.
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Post by Sacredlith on Sun Aug 01, 2010 4:42 pm

And about that girl, try not to talk to her. Do something on your FB which doesn't make her able to contact you through it. The less you speak with her, the less you'll remember her words.

agree 8D
i think you can block someone's profile in FB, so if you've decided not to talk to her anymore, then maybe you can just do that ? xD
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Post by KassieL101 on Sun Aug 01, 2010 8:24 pm

Thank you, all of you ^_^
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Post by BlackLolitarose on Mon Aug 02, 2010 1:06 am

I'm never very good at giving advice.... But, as the others said, communication with your boyfriend is a good idea.
And this might not mean anything to you Kassie.....
But in church this morning, I asked my class to pray for you. I didn't say your situation, just that a friend needed help. And I really do hope everything works out. Smile
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Post by Sacredlith on Mon Aug 02, 2010 2:54 am

^ that's so kind of you <3

and yeah, i just talked about this with my friend this morning. She responded : "Tell your friend to ask his bf . That's the only way to find out . And about this crappy Ohio girl, i'd suggest to just leave her alone ." with a >8( face . XD

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Post by KassieL101 on Mon Aug 02, 2010 11:41 am

O wow, thank you Rose Smile
i am going to try to talk to him whenever he gets back from his trip to the beach...
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Post by ThaliaAnderson on Mon Aug 02, 2010 6:38 pm

Kassie, I hope things get cleared up for you. =/ I don't have any advice, except for what others have said. Just talk to your boyfriend - he should be able to answer any question you ask him.

And for now, just don't let her bother you. Don't read any of her messages. Don't even think about her. Whenever you start to think about her, do something to take your mind off of it. When a thought comes into my head that I don't want, I play with a ring that my mom gave me (since it's nearly always on my finger), or you could hum your favorite song.

A leader of my religion once said something along the lines of, "Your mind's stage cannot occupy more than one contestant at a time. You can only think about what you want to see."

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Post by KassieL101 on Mon Aug 02, 2010 6:48 pm

Thank you Thalia ^_^ thats good advice
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